Here Come the Girls
December 29, 2012 17 Comments
Here’s a guest post from my good friend Phil from For Singles and Couples blog. He’s going to share some tips for us Crazy Chicks … ENJOY! :)
Here come the girls…
Another year has flown by and for all the highlights and low points which have occurred we’re now back round to ‘holiday season.’
It’s usually a time with emphasis on family, with the women ‘usually’ doing the ‘lion’s share’ of planning and preparation to host family, relatives, in-laws and friends.
New Year’s Eve is just around the corner and whether you’re going to Times Square or Trafalgar Square, a house party or a club…wherever you plan to spend it, it’s a time when people generally don’t want to be alone.
I have been a regular visitor to the Crazy Chicks Blog and have noticed that the club is not exclusive to the ‘Single’ ladies out there…
If you’re married, try to get out with girlfriends and enjoy yourself…behaving at all times of course.
Just like women, men tend to notice the most confident women in a group.
You don’t have to be loud and wanting the limelight, to exude confidence, however, married women generally do exude confidence, usually because they are not on the look-out and have nothing to prove.
If you are married and going out with a mixed group, enjoy yourself but hang back a bit, let your single friends shine and draw the attention they may want.
Married ladies, as well as getting some time with your friends, encourage your husbands to do the ‘romantic thing’ and get some time together alone, if you have kids, ask family, in-laws, close neighbours to look after them so that you can get some time for yourselves.
It has been a while but I have a good memory, I do remember what is was like to be ‘mate-less’ at this time of the year and wishing I had someone to share it with…I know, it’s mushy, but us men are romantic too. ;-)
Single ladies, when you’re getting ready to go out with the girls, remember, try not to let it all ‘hang out’ leave something to the imagination.
- Try to do some things different this year to get a different result…
- If you normally drink (and you know what I mean by ‘drink’) to get into that party mood, try to reduce your amount…nobody likes a drunk.
- Try to stay coherent and alert; it’s more attractive and better for your overall safety.
If you the original, grab the bull by the horns type, try to let go and hang back a bit, some of us love very strong outgoing women (I know I do) but not all men like that, some of us guys like to ‘be the man’ and make the first move.
If you’re the shy and reserved type, don’t force it but be more confident…remember confidence is an attractive quality.
Smile more …
make eye contact more but don’t do the stalker chick thing…don’t follow a guy around the room with your eyes or literally, he may end up calling security on you. :-)
Be the best you, you can be, if you love the verbal banter and to have a laugh be the funny girl but allow him to share too, laugh it’s funny but let him politely know when he misses the mark…don’t do the fake laugh thing, it’s better to be honest and tease him about his bad humour than to come across fake.
If you’re usually the girl who gives it up easy, to get something for the night, try something different.
Try not to go past first base, give him something to work towards…you never know come spring he may still with you….
There’s a whole lot more I could share, but for now, I would just say Happy New Year everyone..
Whatever you do, please be safe and enjoy….
Watch out guys…Here come the Crazy Chicks …
Thank you Phil. And Crazy Chicks … make sure you visit Phil and give him a quick hello, a like and a comment. I’m sure he’d love to hear from you :)