I reveal my soul and my thoughts except for my identity to protect the guilty. If you’re a single woman out there and I do mean out there who’s wondering what the hell happened to my life, then WELCOME to my world!

Since I have no voice in the real world, I decided that the “safest” way to rant and rave for the sake of my sanity is to write it down here with the hopes that I find other kindred souls out there who identify and appreciate what I have to say.

So, thank you for reading this and I hope you come back for more.

170 Responses to ME

  1. sayali611 says:

    after reading your blogs, i am in love with my singlehood all over again. your posts are very enjoyable. i am so glad that i subscribed to your blog. keep ’em coming πŸ™‚

  2. Ed Williams says:

    I’m not single, and I’m not a woman so how did I get here?
    LOVE your style. Keep writing with that twist. ; )

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Thanks. I’m glad someone appreciates what I have to say. I’m not always kind to men in my articles, but I’m an equal opportunity criticizer. Come back soon.

  3. Alexandra says:

    Oh, am loving your blog.

    Followed you over from your hilarious comment at Anna Leffler’s….FUNNY HUMOROUS…what else could I want? Everything I love in a blogger here.

  4. Nina says:

    The blog is funny and witty!! I happened to randomly read one post and love it and now am spending the rest of my time reading other posts.
    If being single and studying English literature could let me write like this one day – well, YAY =)!

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      You have made my day!!!!!!!! Thank you so much. And “my dear” you are well ahead of me when I was 18. At that age all I thought about was what I was going to wear the next day, which classes I’d skip, and if I was going to fight with my boyfriend or not. Silly girl … silly days … good memories.

  5. Okay, you know I had to pop by and see who dropped by my blog. Well, hello! We have something else in common other than the getting-buzzed-is-a-good-thing. Both of us also gave ourselves a voice with our blogs. I, however, recently came out of the closet and introduced myself to everyone. SCARY! Ah well…I’m kicking ass, taking names, and holding no prisoners. I’m getting to old for that shit. I’m going to have to circulate and read some of your stuff. Thanks for popping by my place!

  6. jaerae1971 says:

    You’re such a good writer….I think I’m becoming addicted to your blog. LOVE IT!!

  7. sparkylaurie says:

    Exactly my thoughts when I joined the blog….a voice and kindred spirits….out of curiosity,what does lafemmeroar actually mean?

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      This might be another brainstorming discussion lolol.
      la femme (woman/feminine traits) roar (big mouth).
      I try to curtail my mouth in life, but it’s difficult so I need a place to roar.
      Yes, I’m seeking out kindred spirits. While we’re all unique I believe we have the common desire for laughter or the need to laugh. I hope so πŸ™‚

  8. Boop da Boop! Hi!!! I see you bouncing around the community so I thought I would come by and say hiiiii (after of course reading your interview with Ruthie). So, anyway, I am Jenna @ We’re Jumpin’ and I have subscribed to your blog πŸ™‚ I will be back to read more… ttfn

  9. i have just subscribed to your blog and look forward to going through and reading more of your posts. You are a fantastic writer. x

  10. blaqueberri says:

    thanks for the like and I appreciate that you have stopped by to even look. I plan on reading more of your post keep up the good work.


  11. DewNestry says:

    You’re too good to me married!
    Your blog seems lovely. Sorry for not being helpful.

  12. DewNestry says:

    I think wanting to grow old with my friends is my least crazy quality. But if you say so, I’d never protest.

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  14. John says:

    Hey Lady,
    I always enjoy reading your stuff. I check in every so often, sometimes for a laugh and sometimes to get some inspiration for my own writing. Thank you for being true to yourself. It is a rare quality that many people claim and few actually practice, like street smarts or not caring what other people think. Thanks again for keeping us interested and entertained.
    Sincerely, john

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      It’s a struggle being true to my self, but my most important relationship is with me after all. I always intend to give entertaining chuckles, but if I can throw in some inspiration then that’s a plus. Your comment has made my day πŸ™‚

  15. Thanks for swinging by my blog and commenting. I’m a married gal, but am loving your blog.

  16. moofiefate says:

    Here’s a married boy (in the soul, at least)…in some ways, so not your reader… but I love your posts and your style–. So funny and true.

    Thanks for sharing and kicking ass!!!! ❀

    • Lafemmeroar says:


      Aw thank you so much. I try to stay true to my “vision” of the world and hope that it somewhat aligns with readers. BTW, you don’t have to be single to read my blog … you just have to be open and ready for chuckles πŸ™‚ Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Sometimes I doubt what I’m doing here on WP, but when I get comments I remember that I began this because I wanted to connect with others. Okay, I’m “anonymous” but I’m glad that I entertain a bit and I’m glad that I’ve gotten to meet so many other bloggers and readers who really have enriched my “digital life.”

  17. Although I am finally married at this point in time, I do miss those single days! Living alone and being single were the best years of my young life. I am happy now, but its important for women to enjoy their single lives because once they are over, you miss them to peices!

  18. Hi there Lafem. I am nominating you for ‘The Versatile Blogger Award’ I am not sure if you have won it before. But if there ever was a blogger that fit the bill for Versatile, you have got to be it!

    You probably know the award comes with a whole ‘your mission if you choose to accept it…’ routine

    Check out the latest post on Slaves for the dope

  19. alanschuyler says:

    Well I guess you are TOO Popular because I did the same! I always look forward to reading your blog, and in that spirit I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Details are in my post at Following the award guidelines, the post includes the other nominees that I feel are a must read and a little bit about their blogs. At the end of the post are the instructions for picking up your award and a graphic suitable for framing, if you have a teeny tiny frame.

    Note: As an extra bonus, there’s a picture of me in the post when I was a Catholic Altar Boy. It’s a convenient wallet sized photo ready to print and carry as a constant reminder of how life can go oh so horribly wrong.

    • Lafemmeroar says:


      Oh thank you zoo fun for nominating me. I’m honored that you thought of me. I’m going to follow the rules of the award, but I think that I’m going to do something a bit different as well … after all I’ll try to live up to the award and be versatile πŸ™‚ Oh I need to see you as a Catholic Altar Boy. Why did life go wrong after being an altar boy? Maybe God punished you for eating the communion wafers? πŸ™‚

      • alanschuyler says:

        @Lafemm, Life went wrong in the sense that the little altar boy started to question the world and question authority. It was mostly wrong from their viewpoint, not mine. It was very right for me. If I was punished it was for drinking the sacramental wine and building little campfires in the sacristy with the incense cubes! Good times!

  20. trjensen says:

    Hey Lady! I just wanted to let you know I nominated you for a bloggers choice award!

  21. sayali611 says:

    Hi, I have nominated you for β€˜The versatile blogger’. Wouldn’t be complete without listing you–

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Aw thank you sooooo much! I love it. You are one of my first readers and subscribers and it makes me feel really good that you thought of me. Blogging is such a wonderful world isn’t it? Thank you again πŸ™‚ wooo hoooo!

  22. sparkylaurie says:

    Hi Lafemme… long time but just was missing you and thought I’d stop by to say hello! Hope ure doing good.Take care,
    Sparky laurie

  23. PD Williams says:

    Added a link to you in my latest post and on my blogroll. My readers will love you!

  24. sparkylaurie says:

    Hi Lafeme something I came across and just wanted to share: β€œHere’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes… the ones who see things differently β€” they’re not fond of rules… You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things… they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.” – Think Different, narrated by Steve Jobs

  25. sparkylaurie says:

    Here’s the link with narration by Steve Jobs you may upload it in videos if you like it.

  26. Zoe @ Pantry and Fridge says:

    Not like you don’t already have a couple, but I couldn’t help but award it back to you… I think you deserve it, so add this one to your pile!!!
    The Versatile Blogger Award…. that is definitely
    you baby.

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Thanks so much Zoe. It means a lot to me that my readers enjoy the blog. BTW, I just visited yours and you did an awesome job in describing the nominees and a big CONGRATULATIONS to you!!!!!!!!!!!

  27. Heather says:

    Hello, would you mind being my guest blogger on my blog as part of my grade for my internet marketing class?

  28. Pete Howorth says:

    Yay you subscribed to my blog!!! πŸ˜€

  29. eva626 says:

    great blog i love your humor LOL

  30. L F R πŸ™‚ thank you very much for subscribing to my blog, i thought you already had πŸ™‚

  31. I just now realized when I moved blogs, your link wasn’t added…anywhere. What the hell? It’s on the blog page now πŸ™‚

  32. Debbie says:

    Hello There!

    Thanks for stopping by Shadows of Love. You have LOADS for me to check out. I will be back. Judging from all the comments your posts generate, it seems that this is the place to be.

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Hi Debbie,

      I’ve been blogging for about six months and it’s been wonderful. I have the most funny and interesting readers. Their comments are even funnier than my posts. πŸ™‚ Lots of diversity going on here …

  33. Androgoth says:

    I am just calling by to thank you for taking the time
    to read and click on the like option in my Space, you
    are welcome to call by again and offer your thoughts
    on any of my Scripts and extra pages πŸ™‚

    I will be calling back here again soon, and in the
    meantime I will take the opportunity of adding you
    to my blogroll, don’t worry if I don’t click to follow
    you as I hardly follow anyone, indeed I simply use
    my blogroll to visit everyone that I can, and my
    reasoning for not clicking on the follow option is
    that WordPress have a fetish for sending e mails
    on everyone that posts anything, and this way
    helps to cut down on the many e mails I receive…

    I am sorry for waffling on, but
    just wanted you to know that…

    Have a lovely Tuesday my friend πŸ™‚


  34. I have nominated you for the award please have a look as given below;
    Thank you

  35. Raine says:

    Hey, you were recommended to me by Bitter. Just wanted to pop by and say hi. I’ll peruse your site as soon as I’m done with work. (Not supposed to be online right now…hee…hee…)

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Hi Raine πŸ™‚ Welcome and please check me out after work … you sneaky thing. Make sure to clear your cookies and your comp history πŸ™‚ in case those IT spies are watching … πŸ™‚

  36. veehcirra says:

    Hi girl, I too have nominated you for The Versatile Blog award. Please check the link


  37. Stewie says:

    Wow, your blog really seems to have grown massively in popularity since I last looked! Glad to see you’re doing well and good luck with the Bloggers’ Choice nomination.

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Hi Stewie!

      I can’t believe it either. Since the CCC I’ve also started the Crazy Freaks Club and most recently the B.A.D. Club. This blog has given me so much in terms of insight, entertainment and an outlet for my convoluted noodle. I hope you’re doing well and happy holidays!

  38. veehcirra says:

    Have a wonderful Christmas girl πŸ˜‰

  39. veehcirra says:

    I share the same sentiments ;)Thanks for the many laughs. Looking forward to better times in 2012…

  40. Happy New Year 2012,,,, have fun πŸ™‚

  41. shrookasfour says:

    good job :))
    go ahead, make my day πŸ˜€

  42. JWo says:

    You may have one of these blog awards already, but now you’ll have the new, shiny version too. Love your blog…

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Oh JWo … I wake up and see you comment. I’m so happy and I can never have too many awards. It’s a priceless gift from my readers letting me know that I’m appreciated. So, thank you so much for thinking of me. πŸ™‚

  43. iLike your blog! πŸ™‚ Thanks for visiting! πŸ˜€

  44. Androgoth says:

    I am just calling by to see what you are up to this evening, probably something extremely wicked with a hint of naughty but then again why not? πŸ™‚ Have a lovely rest of evening and as it will soon be the weekend I wish you a wonderful time πŸ™‚ Be wicked now πŸ™‚

    Androgoth Xx

  45. Thanks so much for stopping by my blog. I’m so glad you discovered me, so I could discover you! I’m looking forward to reading much more. Off I go to do just that.

  46. ajonespua says:

    Nominated you for the versatile blogger award babe πŸ™‚

  47. xoxo bb says:


    I’ve nominated you for The Versatile Blogger Award for your amazing posts that I adore!

    Get details on how to pay it forward and claim your award here:

  48. Have been following but a 62 year old does not have comment stuff in mind for interviews but remain on the lookout for your humor and rants.

  49. Teresa says:

    Thanks for liking my post for Cranberry Raspberry Bars. It really is delicious. I hope you try it sometime. If you do, please let me know how it turns out for you.

  50. JulieSAFC says:

    Really sassy blog, You have a wicked wit πŸ™‚ look forward to joining you in your adventures!

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Thank you Julie and nice to meet you πŸ™‚ We try to sass our way into laughing at the malfunction of the universe around “here” … see you soon πŸ™‚

  51. Glad to be here…you tell it like it is…

  52. liveblissful says:

    Hi, I really enjoy your blog and have nominated you for the Sunshine Award

  53. 10000movies says:

    Hello there! First of all thanks for visiting 10000movies. Although I am not a woman, I find many things in common. Keep sharing your thoughts πŸ™‚
    Take care

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Thank you! I will keep on being a Crazy Chick who laughs at the malfunction of the universe. Since you have a movie site … my two fav movies are “Persona” and “A Christmas Story” … pretty opposite I know, but that’s just how my noodle rolls πŸ™‚

      • 10000movies says:

        Better to laugh at than to cry for as pointed out! “Persona” is indeed an amazing movie. I dunno how I missed “A Christmas Story”! Will check it out! Thanks πŸ™‚

        • Lafemmeroar says:

          OMG I’m a film freak, but “A Christmas Story” is the quintessential holiday movie for me πŸ™‚ Just an FYI on some of my fav films …

          Open Range: I’m not much for westerns, but Kevin Costner really achieved something great in this film. I think the film is highly under-rated in the western genre. The writing, cinematography we stellar–the camera angles and many of the shots seemed like an homage to “Citizen Kane” …

          Damage: Jeremy Irons is the only guy who can play such a dark role …

          Lars and the Real Girl: Where can you see a movie that makes a “sex doll” endearing?

          The Moderns: This one is soooo stylishly sexy with a tongue in cheek flair …

          Raise the Red Lantern: Simply stunning and tragic

          This is the shoooooort list …. real short, but thought I’d share. πŸ™‚

          • 10000movies says:

            Well, I am a film freak too πŸ™‚
            A post in 10000movies amounts to one fifth of the movies I see. You know how it is: sometimes, the mood to post is not there…It should be a joy and not an obsession after all πŸ™‚
            By sharing your short list you gave me an idea…
            Will get back πŸ™‚

            • Lafemmeroar says:

              OMG … that list in NOOOOOT EVEN INDICATIVE OF MY TWISTED NOODLE. We should play a game … of this somehow! πŸ™‚

              One of my fav docs is “Let’s Get Lost” have you ever heard of it? Saw it eons ago … it was me and six other people in the theater … I think you can see it on You Tube now.

  54. Phil Gayle_For Singles and Couples says:

    Hope you enjoyed that meal last night…it did make me hungry. πŸ˜‰

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      For the next two days I will be busy planning on what I will bring to my brother’s for Thanksgiving: vegan chocolate cupcakes, stuffed mushrooms, hummus, and the yam/kale/mushroom dish. I’ll probably have some turkey … one thing for sure is that I know I’m gonna be having me some BOOZE!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ™‚

  55. RAMU DAS says:

    Just like you, even I don’t have voice in the real world, for when I raise my voice I’m compelled to suppress it. Thanks to all the entrepreneurs who have created such a thing called ‘blog’. Otherwise our life would have been very difficult.

    You have a nice page πŸ™‚

  56. Buttafly says:

    I don’t remember how I got here.
    But I know I have to stay tuned ..we’re on the same wavelenght:)

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Hi Buttafly! It’s late on my side of the world, but I’m so glad that you want to stay tuned … I know you won’t mind the ramblings of my twisted noodle … if you’re a chick and you’re crazy, then you should join my club! πŸ™‚

  57. Nice to meet you too Lafemmeroar … and show me a woman who hasn’t wanted to rant away… πŸ™‚

    Wishing you a beautiful Day …. πŸ™‚

  58. Could’nt let the year end without saying how much I’ve enjoyed nearly meeting you and reading your Blog. You and your writings are one of the things which gave me a real lift and a laugh in 2012. I wish you every happiness and a fruitful 2013

    • Lafemmeroar says:

      Thank you so much for your gracious words πŸ™‚ Happy 2013 to you as well and I know that you will continue to write your insightful essays about life! πŸ™‚

  59. Scoop Jackson..."News 60" says:

    Scoop stands ready to help you launch an investigation into finding your life! When did you last see it? Where did it like to hang out, and with who? Was there a ransom note?

    Seriously, I hope you find what it is you are looking for in your life and yourself. I appreciate the visit and welcome you back anytime…


  60. What about if it’s just a professorish professor?

  61. fjpeter1961 says:

    So, I would like to know… What do you and your followers think of Simon de Beauvoir’s “The Second Sex”?

  62. Harry says:

    Can you give me your email at my ” contact me ” page please at poets corner.

  63. quirkybooks says:

    Thanks for stopping by my blog. I love my single life. I am very romantic and every year I celebrate being single on Valentine’s day. You can read past posts about it on my blog. I also go away to London a lot on my own. I date myself, take myself out for meals and to the cinema, and love my life. There is a post on my blog about – do you date yourself?

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